REBECCA
Self-proclaimed expert in the art of getting distracted by pretty things, who is definitely getting a headache if I haven’t had a morning coffee. I am easily impressed by a beautiful sunrise, a good book or fresh flowers.
If I’m grumpy, feed me, water me and give me sunlight. I am basically a plant!
On occasion I indulge in the odd scroll of hilarious videos whilst laughing out-loud to myself.
EVERYONE LOVES A FREEBIE
Once upon a time
there was a girl
She was overwhelmed and searching for something.
Beyond all else, it felt as if nothing could be worse than rock bottom — and that’s exactly where she found herself.
Lost in a cloud of self-doubt.
Burdened by the pressure of expectations.
Utterly alone in the world.
That girl was me.
Throughout my life, I’ve embodied many versions of myself.
Each one fully lived in, fully felt.
Each chapter holding powerful memories that shaped who I am at my core.
For a long time, I believed I had to choose one path — and that it had to be the right one.
Pick a lane. Fit in the box. Make it make sense… even when it felt completely unaligned.
Until I stopped trying to make myself smaller.
Because I’m not meant to be defined by a title, a career path, or a single version of who I’ve been.
I am all of it. Still am all of it. Completely layered, always evolving — and very much still in progress.
Today, I’m still a work in progress.
But I’ve moved from the uncertainty of girlhood into the confidence of a woman who is proud to be herself.
Flaws and all.
Unapologetic. Soft. Certain in her becoming.
I created this space to honour every version of me — and now I open it to honour every version of you.
The past.
The present.
And the one you’re still becoming.
Through honest reflection, healing, joy, style, community, and creative expression — we remember:
We’re not here to reinvent ourselves.
We’re here to reclaim ourselves.
This is for her — the woman who’s outgrown her labels, outlived past chapters, or feels a little dull without her sparkle.
IF THIS IS YOUR VIBE, LET’S BE FRIENDS
My STYLE can be described as the garden where fairies live inside the hardcovers storybooks of an urban library.
I’M LOVING
Nature. Romanticising everything. Deep conversations. Coffee from a cute mug. Laughing until you cry. Therapy.
I’M LEARNING
It is fine to be a beginner. Be more open to change. Allow new energy into my space. To go with the flow.
I’M NOT A FAN OF
Judgement. Bullying. Surface level conversation. Negative self-talk. Texting! Macha (unpopular opinion). Gatekeeping.
I’M A FIRM BELIEVER THAT
You should build your tribe based off energy, not age. Life is too short to wait for a special occasion - wear the outfit!